My girlfriend tried it once before and it freaked me out. It's his dishonesty and inability to be faithful that is the real issue - you just can't trust the guy. Gay as a bag of dick s me very clear on this: If it grosses you out or you find yourself thinking about a guy the whole time -- you're gay. On the other hand, if you do like looking at their bodies, you could be gay or bi. Also, when I am watching the porn movies I like the part where guys take off their clothes better but just white guys than a female undressing.